How many of you guys have(or have had) problems with validation seeking (from women mostly) and how did you deal with it?

2022.01.22 11:11 IAmLizard123 How many of you guys have(or have had) problems with validation seeking (from women mostly) and how did you deal with it?

So I(18m) realized that I have been seeking approval and validation my whole life from people and mostly from women.
I would always try to get compliments and sympathy or whatever from people. And with girls that I liked or that Ive been with, I would litteraly stop doing everything to be with them. So for example, I have a sleeping schedule, eating well, training well, being focused, and then a girl that I like comes around and says that she likes me and I instanly stop being focused and pushing myself because "I made it" or "Thats it, I got her so why would I need anything else". I kinda feel that "Im loved so I dont need to do anything". I hope that makes sense.
Then if Im playing games with my boys, and she messages me, I instantly drop everything and go talk to her, because that is, in my head, the best thing in the world. And then, when they leave me or whatever, I lose a piece of myself. I feel like shit, I feel like if what I did wasnt enough to make them stay, then what the hell am I supposed to do, will I never find anyone? I start to question and doubt myself constanly. I also feel like I have some abandonment issues, or atleast some symptoms of it. I think that because there are moments where, if she doesnt text me like she usually does, I get genuienly and irrationally scared.
Jesus, that was a rant, Im sorry for the long read. I kinda hope that someone thats in a similar situation as me will see this and see that they arent alone, because I also feel very alone sometimes and that theres something deep and fundamentally wrong with me.
Anyway, how did you guys deal with all of these thoughts, if you had them? Did you just grow out of them? Learned to love yourself? Worked until you were proud of yourself? Find a way to seek only your own approval? Any tips are welcome. Thank you.
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2022.01.22 11:11 andrewsayles The most boring projects like Dot, Algo and Link are the coins that are primed for the biggest year.

The most boring projects like Dot, Algo and Link are the coins that are primed for the biggest year.
Sure everyone loves chasing moonshots that you need to jump through a few hoops to aquire early. All you need to do is hit 1 per year and you're golden.
However, the vast majority of someone's portfolio should be safer coins like the one's mentioned.
These 3 especially give investors stability that comes with top coins, but also some hidden upside since these are off most people's radar currently.
If we're being honest, most people really don't even know much about these 3 coins and why they're so awesome.
Let's start with Chainlink. It's built on the Ethereum chain and it acts as an Oracle Network.
In simple terms, this means that Link is able to pull data from off chain sources and integrate it with on chain data.
This sounds complicated, but when you see a real world example, it's makes sense why Link is primed for take off.
One thing I'm seeing with alot of #p2e is that these games are implementing Link's Oracle system.
Games generally require some time of randomization to keep things interesting. IE: Dice rolls or card draws
Just because something happens on the blockchain, doesn't mean its random.
What ChainLink does is use an outside system of data for randomization. Then Link integrates the results with mechanisms in game that require randomized events.
It's really just a fancy way of having a blockchain roll dice or draw cards for you.
If you are of the belief that Play To Earn will be a big part of 2022, it's reasonable to feel that projects tied to gaming will experience similar or greater success.
It's very likely Link will see greater long term success than most games since it's utility can be used in many niches.
Also, If you look at the start of the bull run, It was ChainLink that started it off and it was ChainLink that was one of the first tokens to take a major dip once the trend started to change. It has the due up factor on it's side.
The next coin primed for a stealth take off is Algorand. If you are dialed into crypto, you've probably liked this coin for a while even though it's kinda boring.
Price wise, we heard next to nothing from Algo in 2021, but I expect that to change in 2022.
What excites me most about boring ol' Algo is that governments and public sectors all across the world have been quietly implementing it.
For example, in Miami, the city uses the Algorand blockchain to check the air quality. It's very likely this could become a nationwide standard in the near future.
We recently saw the Marshall Islands select the Algorand blockchain to power their first national digital currency.
The currency will operate alongside the US dollar. It very well could end up being the model for how crypto is scaled out to replace the physical dollar.
Finally, we are also seeing Algo being used to implement 5G and grow artificial intelligence. We can all agree that both of these spaces will very prevalent the next 5-10 years.
Last but not least is my personal favorite on the list, Polkadot. I've been huge fan of Dot for a couple years now.
Dot is the start to fixing the biggest problem in crypto right now... Connectivity between chains.
Right now you can't easily send tokens or data from one chain to the other. Let's say #ETH to #BNB. Sure, there is a process called bridging, but not everyone can do it and not all data can be bridged.
Here comes Dot to the rescue. Polkadot is designed to move not only tokens, but also data or smart contracts across blockchains.
It's why I love Dot so much. In a world where everything aim's to be the Ethereum killer. Dot aim's grow the Blockchain space. It really highlights what the blockchain community is all about.
All this sound cool, but you're probably wondering why I think they could be primed to explode in the near future.
All of these coins had solid growth early in the bull run. However, they each spent most of last yr in what felt like an accumulations phase.
If it really were a year long accumulation phase for Dot, Algo, and Link and this bull run isn't over, their next pumps could be astronomical.
Even if the bull run is over, with how I foresee the bear market playing out, I still see Dot, Algo, Link having a year of growth during a downswing.

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2022.01.22 11:11 assagitaz Max TenRom - Sinai [Camel Riders]

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2022.01.22 11:11 vinividiflatus Surprise rounds in a social interaction

The PHB only mentions instances of one side sneaking up on the other and generally being unseen. If I as a player am in a social interaction with someone and they attack me, would I be surprised since I don't specifically expect them to attack?
And if that same NPC has displayed aggression towards my party previously, would it not be given that I'd be alert to more aggression in later interactions after the first bout of rage the NPC showed?
Also, if I see the NPC 20 feet away from me (still in a social interaction) and they charge at me and hit me, would I be surprised and wouldn't we all have to roll for the initiative?
Just wondering about the fairness of a certain encounter I recently had in a session.
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2022.01.22 11:11 chicagoose3 ITAP of a woman walking (at warp speeeed).

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2022.01.22 11:11 caro-exe Genesect 4123 1221 4279 JOIN FAST

4123 1221 4279 First 5 ppl
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2022.01.22 11:11 WaterOcelot Stukje fruit? Jerry telde 199 euro neer voor gigantische jackfruit bij AD Delhaize

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2022.01.22 11:11 karlkokain All of a sudden I keep having this glitch and I hate it. Game reinstalled, GPU drivers reinstalled, nothing helped :( Didn't occur for the first 20hrs of gameplay.

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2022.01.22 11:11 saurin212 Inflation pain is felt exponentially in large families

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2022.01.22 11:11 flowerplz Vods ModCheck?

dunno if its been addressed already, but what happened to all of the vods? do they auto purge on bans?
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2022.01.22 11:11 Alagheza ما لا تعرفه عن ماكينة قهوة تورنيدو من عيوب وسعر ومواصفات

تعد ماركة تورنيدو من الماركات الغنية عن التعريف حيث أنها ثبتت كفائتها في صنع العديد من الأجهزة المنزلية بجودة عالية وبكفاءة كبيرة وقامت بتوفير العديد من ماكينات القهوة ذات الاستخدامات المتنوعة والاشكال المختلفة لكى ترضي أغلب الجمهور ففي التقرير القادم سوف نوضح كل ما يتعلق بماكينة صنع القهوة من
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2022.01.22 11:11 h3lp11 Where should i post a picture of op replying to himself

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2022.01.22 11:11 Chemstudents Are Hansen solubility parameters tabulated, and if so, where might I find such a tabulation?

I am specifically looking for Hansen solubility parameters of polymers (PAA, PVDF, PVF, etc) but have not had any luck finding such information online so far.
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2022.01.22 11:11 Asad_Farooqui What piece of media is ruined by a bad script?

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2022.01.22 11:11 LadyVris [FOR HIRE ] Hello! I'm open commisions in vector art style. 10$ - 5$ Contact me

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2022.01.22 11:11 FotografieTest Test

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2022.01.22 11:11 _saghar Melancholy madness, 70x100cm oil on canvas. Welcome feedback. Someone proposed to buy it for €1.5k but not sure if it’s worth that much to begin with.

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2022.01.22 11:11 Distopiakingdom My community day Pokemon.

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2022.01.22 11:11 Starship_Paradroid Captain Boom can't understand why nobody wants to sign on with him

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2022.01.22 11:10 endangeredfurry Tbh this sound real

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2022.01.22 11:10 BeautifulSeparate687 Depression has got 10 times worst randomly

I want to type out something to describe it better but honestly i feel so drained. I feel terrible, worst than usual. I tried to fix my sleeping schedule from going to sleep at 7am and waking up at 1pm to waking up at 8am, going to sleep whenever i want. It worked but now i sleep 12 hours and wake up in the night a lot. I was feeling slightly more better for a few days, i was cleaning my room and showering as soon as i woke up. Now i feel so tired and foggy
. I feel like anytime i do something to try and improve my life it comes crashing down on me twice as hard, no matter how hard i try to keep it away. My self harm as escalated and my self esteem is at an all time low. What can i do to get out of this pit quicker than just riding it out? Things that i was doing a few days ago to try and improve now seem impossible. I'm waking up and instantly feel like crying, even though i can't. I hate this feeling more than anything, it's worst than being numb, the emotional pain is still there and makes my entire body tingle in a bad way, i can't explain it but i only feel it when like this. Is there anything i can do? I'm sorry for sounding desperate I'm just tired of being like this.
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2022.01.22 11:10 ecjoseandres How to drain iphone battery faster?

My apple care expires in two months and my battery is currently at 82%. How can i drain this faster to reach 80% and qualify for a free replacement?
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2022.01.22 11:10 VotemanXB1 Forbidden Carmel

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2022.01.22 11:10 GhostHashtag Cheaters can manipulate shadowplay recordings?

So I was playing lighthouse, sitting completely still in a corner like us rats do.
A guy walks up, says "Hey you" and I think that he is trying to bait me into revealing my position, so I don't answer. He then says my name, and I now know he is cheating.
I rush him and die, cuz I want to report him, and when I died I clicked my shadowplay button since I wanted to watch it back.
My recording was somehow cut to 30 seconds before the guy approaches the house, so I click the shadowplay button again.
Now my recording is cut to RIGHT after I press the "Next" button that makes you go from the post-raid screen to the main menu, so that way I can't record his in-game name.
In the past 2 days, I have seen 4 cheaters, this is getting pretty crazy.
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2022.01.22 11:10 UnovaLycanrocInGalar Got pulled over, but the officer’s a cutie!

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